tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post7004372045959223519..comments2022-03-31T13:42:01.715-07:00Comments on I Was Stupid: Modern DatingDave Owenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14863036706112025142noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-88569512787762337812012-01-28T12:01:24.365-08:002012-01-28T12:01:24.365-08:00I think she just means to be more assertive on the...I think she just means to be more assertive on the asking people out side of things... I don't agree with the sexual aggression part until AFTER marriage (with your spouse!), but being assertive and at times aggressive in the dating area is a good thing so you can find someone to love and love you back.The Purple Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11437333113278178155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-36489615398926343402012-01-28T11:54:05.051-08:002012-01-28T11:54:05.051-08:00So your parents were never married?? just kidding....So your parents were never married?? just kidding. You might start your life of finding someone to love you by not calling yourself bad names! <br /><br />Glad to be connected now and I hope you might read my blog All Things Purple from time to time (if not daily) http://iheartpurplestuff.blogspot.comThe Purple Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11437333113278178155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-5571142650686633582012-01-28T05:09:24.250-08:002012-01-28T05:09:24.250-08:00Thank you for your kind words! Your blog is awesom...Thank you for your kind words! Your blog is awesome if only for how heartening it is to read of a younger person's enthusiasm for books, knowledge, libraries, et. al. I don't intend that to sound patronising (although it does). Perhaps I mix in the wrong circles, but it's rare to find someone of a similar age who's truly into literature.Dave Owenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14863036706112025142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-14484935774671987632012-01-28T05:06:17.931-08:002012-01-28T05:06:17.931-08:00Solipsism's a bitch...Solipsism's a bitch...Dave Owenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14863036706112025142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-82189331346613999992012-01-28T05:05:27.569-08:002012-01-28T05:05:27.569-08:00To be honest, you sound like just the kind of woma...To be honest, you sound like just the kind of woman that terrifies me! That's not intended as an insult - I'm terrified of most women, so girls that are quite forward are my kryptonite.<br /><br />Also, I fear that, as a male, adopting a policy of sexual aggression may do more harm than good...Dave Owenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14863036706112025142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-30781853976462910062012-01-28T05:03:42.050-08:002012-01-28T05:03:42.050-08:00Say whatever you wish! I always like to know what ...Say whatever you wish! I always like to know what people think, and it's near-impossible to offend me.<br /><br />And please, don't feel disheartened by anything I write. I am a chronic miserable bastard!Dave Owenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14863036706112025142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-69837123384142915002012-01-28T05:02:31.699-08:002012-01-28T05:02:31.699-08:00I'm not resorting to online dating just yet! D...I'm not resorting to online dating just yet! Doing the eHarmony survey was just for this blog... although I will have that account ready and waiting when the time comes :PDave Owenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14863036706112025142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-64878206691777366082012-01-27T12:50:03.079-08:002012-01-27T12:50:03.079-08:00First of all thanks for the follow on Twitter....
...First of all thanks for the follow on Twitter....<br />I wish my blog was as good as yours however, the library world rarely throws up much chance to talk about my love life or lack there of! HA! <br />I love your insight on the world and I will definitely check out your blog again. You don't have to search for love in the virtual world - but sometimes it can give you the opportunity to meet people you never would have encountered before...like me...we could be virtual friends! (Message me if you wish) 'cos that's what people do these days right?!? Befriend people they've never met...HA. God love the boldness the internet lets us hide behind! :DPenelope Dunn (aka Lady Pen)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13220765146447197678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-27608338540936032692012-01-27T10:46:09.876-08:002012-01-27T10:46:09.876-08:00I can't imagine someone this hilarious being a...I can't imagine someone this hilarious being alone. Then again, I suppose we're all alone, a little bit.<br /><br />And I've got kids.Matthew MacNishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03264738483763244969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-6471925784245085952012-01-27T09:47:27.708-08:002012-01-27T09:47:27.708-08:00LOL. And tears of sadness. Shit, your mood swing...LOL. And tears of sadness. Shit, your mood swings remind me of mine! LOL Great blog, though. "Piers Morgan lkl wl2m sub bbw 4 fs rts dp dv da mbm’?" Stay away...that is one kinky motherfucker! LOL<br /> <br />I never really dated--I just said "no" to anyone who was talking directly to my boobs or to anyone who didn't realize the feminist movement happened. Because I am aggressive and tend to favor the shy guys who read a lot, know the science of space, and are general nerds--I found exactly what I was looking for. I saw my husband on the library steps in college, walked up to him, told him we were going back to his place, and never left. I moved in with him two days after meeting him. We've been married 8 years and I'm now pregnant. That was the best thing I've ever done--And I've done a lot. LOL But I'm an extremist and I know EXACTLY what I want because I know who I am. You cannot find someone perfect without a good introspection. Because I was happy with who I was and the decisions I've made, I could make choices that other ppl would be shocked at. Sorry if I sound a little preachy, but always go for broke! Life is too short to sit around and ponder (even though that's what my philosophical/english major husband does LOL). But hey, he could sit around b/c I was hunting! LOL I devoured him like he was a sweet, little fawn! LOL A very famous cheer is my motto: "Be Aggressive, B - E Aggressive!" B/c there could be two completely shy ppl perfect for each other but they miss that moment and loneliness ensues. I truly believe that each person has a soulmate. Whether or not you find them online, in a bar, day care, hot air balloon--there is someone meant for you. I was lucky that I was pissed off that day and looking for angry sex LOL B/c I might have missed him. You just never know. Love yourself first and then like a magnet, more love will find you. And I apologize if I've pissed anyone off, but I just feel so strongly about this subject. No one is meant to be alone and if the internet can make the world smaller so that your mate can be found, well, I see that as a good thing.Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07838534018090687913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-74562396950499545002012-01-27T04:40:37.281-08:002012-01-27T04:40:37.281-08:00Wow. I have never read a blog post quite like this...Wow. I have never read a blog post quite like this one. It makes me feel way less hopeful that I will ever find someone to love me as I hope.<br /><br />And to comment on the first commenter's comment: eHarmony (which I have never used their services) probably just caters to Christian people, I am sure. Bias infers some sort of judgement and they are just trying to match people up. They probably need some foundation to bounce off and Christianity must be it for them. <br /><br />I appreciate such an honest perspective. And going in an eHarmony direction-- you might find a nice girl who has the right heart and perspective at church. I don't know if you have a church, but I would ponder on the idea. I would say a whole lot more, but as we don't know each other I don't want you to misinterpret anything. <br /><br />May the force be with you.The Purple Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11437333113278178155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4451756731517897590.post-36460382801702247232012-01-27T02:04:27.232-08:002012-01-27T02:04:27.232-08:00eHarmony is very very very biased towards people w...eHarmony is very very very biased towards people who believe in the Christian God. Anyone who's not one of them it doesn't work very well for. It's also ridiculously priced, when you can use okCupid for free. Go to okCupid!clivehorsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06254685485033457066noreply@blogger.com